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Marriage Minutes

Last updated on 12/14/2014

This is the collection of Marriage Minutes, and other minutes which affirm same-sex unions or commitments among Quakers.

The collection is a work in progress. We have incorporated the minutes previously collected by S. Cohen, as well as any other Minutes we have been able to locate. We have incorporated a list generated by late Wallace Cayard of Cranberry Twp, PA by surveying Monthly Meetings in the United States in 1997 and 2004, published in Friends Journal (April 2005). His work has nearly doubled our collection. Any Meeting with a link is one for whom we have the Marriage Minute.

Table of Contents

  1. Acadia Monthly Meeting Northeast Harbor, ME (Vassalboro Quarterly Meeting; New England Yearly Meeting)
  2. Acton Monthly Meeting West Concord, MA (Salem Quarterly Meeting; New England Yearly Meeting)
  3. Adelphi Monthly Meeting Adelphi, MD (Baltimore Yearly Meeting)
  4. Albany Monthly Meeting Albany, NY (New York Yearly Meeting)
  5. Albuquerque Monthly Meeting Albuquerque, NM (Intermountain Yearly Meeting)
  6. Alexandria Monthly Meeting Alexandria, VA (Baltimore Yearly Meeting)
  7. Amawalk Monthly Meeting (New York Yearly Meeting)
  8. Ames Monthly Meeting (Iowa Yearly Meeting)
  9. Amesbury Monthly Meeting Amesbury, MA (Salem Quarterly Meeting; New England Yearly Meeting)
  10. Ann Arbor Monthly Meeting Ann Arbor, MI (Lake Erie Yearly Meeting)
  11. Annapolis Monthly Meeting Annapolis, MD (Baltimore Yearly Meeting)
  12. Annapolis Valley Monthly Meeting (formerly Wolfville Monthly Meeting), Wolfville, NS (Canadian Yearly Meeting)
  13. Argenta Monthly Meeting Argenta, BC (Canadian Yearly Meeting)
  14. Athens Monthly Meeting (Lake Erie Yearly Meeting)
  15. Atlanta Monthly Meeting Atlanta, GA (Southern Appalachian Yearly Meeting and Association
  16. Austin Monthly Meeting (South Central Yearly Meeting)
  17. Australia Yearly Meeting
  18. Baltimore Monthly Meeting -- Stony Run (Baltimore Yearly Meeting)
  19. Barton-Glover Barton, VT (Northwest Quarterly Meeting; New England Yearly Meeting)
  20. Beacon Hill Monthly Meeting Boston, MA (Salem Quarterly Meeting; New England Yearly Meeting)
  21. Bear Creek Monthly Meeting (Iowa Yearly Meeting - Conservative)
  22. Belfast Monthly Meeting Belfast, ME (Vassalboro Quarterly Meeting; New England Yearly Meeting)
  23. Belfast Area Monthly Meeting
  24. Bellingham Monthly Meeting (North Pacific Yearly Meeting)
  25. Beloit Monthly Meeting (Northern Yearly Meeting)
  26. Berkeley Monthly Meeting (Pacific Yearly Meeting)
  27. Bethesda Monthly Meeting Bethesda, MD (Baltimore Yearly Meeting)
  28. Birmingham Monthly Meeting (Lake Erie Yearly Meeting)
  29. Bloomington Monthly Meeting Bloomington, IN (Whitewater Quarterly Meeting; Ohio Valley Yearly Meeting)
  30. Boise Monthly Meeting (North Pacific Yearly Meeting)
  31. Boone Monthly Meeting (Southern Appalachian Yearly Meeting)
  32. Boulder Monthly Meeting (Intermountain Yearly Meeting)
  33. Britain Yearly Meeting
  34. Brooklyn Monthly Meeting Brooklyn, NY (New York Yearly Meeting)
  35. Buffalo Monthly Meeting (New York Yearly Meeting)
  36. Burlington Monthly Meeting Burlington, VT (Northwest Quarterly Meeting; New England Yearly Meeting)
  37. Brunswick Monthly Meeting Topsham, ME (Falmouth Quarterly Meeting; New England Yearly Meeting)
  38. Butternuts Monthly Meeting Oneonta, NY (New York Yearly Meeting)
  39. Canadian Yearly Meeting
  40. Cannon Valley Monthly Meeting (Northern Yearly Meeting)
  41. Celo Monthly Meeting Burnsville, NC (Southern Appalachian Yearly Meeting and Association
  42. Central Philadelphia Monthly Meeting Philadelpha, PA (Philadelphia Quarterly Meeting; Philadelphia Yearly Meeting)
  43. Chamisa Preparative Meeting (Intermountain Yearly Meeting)
  44. Chappaqua Monthly Meeting (New York Yearly Meeting)
  45. Charlottesville Monthly Meeting (Baltimore Yearly Meeting)
  46. Chatham-Summit Monthly Meeting Chatham, NJ (New York Yearly Meeting)
  47. Chestnut Hill Monthly Meeting Philadelphia, PA (Philadelphia Quarterly Meeting; Philadelphia Yearly Meeting)
  48. Chico Monthly Meeting (Pacific Yearly Meeting)
  49. Claremont Monthly Meeting Claremont, CA (Southern California Quarterly Meeting; Pacific Yearly Meeting)
  50. Clear Creek Monthly Meeting (Ohio Valley Yearly Meeting)
  51. Cleveland Monthly Meeting (Lake Erie Yearly Meeting)
  52. Cobscook Monthly Meeting Whiting, ME (Vassalboro Quarterly Meeting; New England Yearly Meeting)
  53. Colorado Springs Monthly Meeting Colorado Springs, CO (Intermountain Yearly Meeting)
  54. Columbia Monthly Meeting Columbia, SC (Southern Appalachian Yearly Meeting and Association)
  55. Columbia Monthly Meeting Columbia, MO (Illinois Yearly Meeting)
  56. Concord Friends Meeting Canterbury, NH (Dover Quarterly Meeting; New England Yearly Meeting)
  57. Connecticut Valley Quarterly Meeting (New England Yearly Meeting)
  58. Cornwall Monthly Meeting (New York Yearly Meeting)
  59. Corvallis Monthly Meeting (North Pacific Yearly Meeting)
  60. Croton Valley Monthly Meeting (New York Yearly Meeting)
  61. Davis Monthly Meeting (Pacific Yearly Meeting)
  62. Dayton Monthly Meeting (Ohio Valley Yearly Meeting)
  63. Deleware Monthly Meeting (Lake Erie Yearly Meeting)
  64. Des Moines Valley Monthly Meeting Des Moines, IA (Iowa Yearly Meeting - Conservative)
  65. Detroit Monthly Meeting Detroit, MI (Lake Erie Yearly Meeting)
  66. Dover Monthly Meeting Dover, NH (Dover Quarterly Meeting; New England Yearly Meeting)
  67. Downers Grove Monthly Meeting (Illinois Yearly Meeting)
  68. Dunnings Creek Monthly Meeting (Baltimore Yearly Meeting)
  69. Durham Monthly Meeting (North Carolina Yearly Meeting - Conservative)
  70. Easton Monthly Meeting Easton, NY (New York Yearly Meeting)
  71. Eastside Monthly Meeting (North Pacific Yearly Meeting)
  72. Eggemoggin Reach Monthly Meeting Sargentville, ME (Vassalboro Quarterly Meeting; New England Yearly Meeting)
  73. Eugene Monthly Meeting Eugene, OR (Wilamette Quarterly Meeting; North Pacific Yearly Meeting)
  74. Evanston Monthly Meeting (Illinois Yearly Meeting)
  75. Fayetteville Monthly Meeting (North Carolina Yearly Meeting - Conservative)
  76. Farmington Monthly Meeting Farmington, ME (Vassalboro Quarterly Meeting; New England Yearly Meeting)
  77. Fifteenth Street Monthly Meeting New York, NY (New York Yearly Meeting)
  78. Floyd Monthly Meeting Floyd, VA (Baltimore Yearly Meeting)
  79. Fort Collins Monthly Meeting (Intermountain Yearly Meeting)
  80. Fort Lauderdale Friends Meeting Fort Lauderdale, FL (Southeastern Yearly Meeting)
  81. Framingham Monthly Meeting Framingham, MA (Salem Quarterly Meeting; New England Yearly Meeting)
  82. Frankford Monthly Meeting Philadelphia, PA (Philadelphia Quarterly Meeting; Philadelphia Yearly Meeting
  83. Fredrick Monthly Meeting (Baltimore Yearly Meeting)
  84. Fresh Pond Monthly Meeting Cambridge, MA (Salem Quarterly Meeting; New England Yearly Meeting)
  85. Friends House Preparative Meeting (London Yearly Meeting)
  86. Friends Meeting at Cambridge Cambridge, MA (Salem Quarterly Meeting; New England Yearly Meeting)
  87. Friends Meeting of Washington DC (Baltimore Yearly Meeting)
  88. Friendship Monthly Meeting (North Carolina Yearly Meeting - Conservative)
  89. Germantown Monthly Meeting Philadelphia, PA (Philadelphia Quarterly Meeting; Philadelphia Yearly Meeting)
  90. Gettysburg Monthly Meeting (Baltimore Yearly Meeting)
  91. Gila Monthly Meeting (Intermountain Yearly Meeting)
  92. Goose Creek Monthly Meeting (Baltimore Yearly Meeting)
  93. Goshen Monthly Meeting (Philadelphia Yearly Meeting)
  94. Grass Valley Monthly Meeting (Pacific Yearly Meeting)
  95. Green Country Monthly Meeting Tulsa, OK (South Central Yearly Meeting)
  96. Green Street Monthly Meeting Philadelphia, PA (Philadelphia Quarterly Meeting; Philadelphia Yearly Meeting)
  97. Gunpowder Friends Meeting Sparks, MD (Baltimore Yearly Meeting)
  98. Halifax Monthly Meeting Halifax, NS (Canadian Yearly Meeting)
  99. Hanover Monthly Meeting Hanover, NH (Northwest Quarterly Meeting; New England Yearly Meeting)
  100. Harrisburg Monthly Meeting Harrisburgh, PA (Caln Quarterly Meeting; Philadelphia Yearly Meeting)
  101. Hartford Monthly Meeting West Hartford, CT (Connecticut Valley Quarterly Meeting; New England Yearly Meeting)
  102. Heartland Monthly Meeting (North Pacific Yearly Meeting)
  103. Herndon Monthly Meeting (Baltimore Yearly Meeting)
  104. Homewood Monthly Meeting Baltimore, MD (Baltimore Monthly Meeting)
  105. Honolulu Monthly Meeting (Pacific Yearly Meeting)
  106. Hopewell Monthly Meeting (Ohio Valley Yearly Meeting)
  107. Housatonic Monthly Meeting (New York Yearly Meeting)
  108. Hudson Monthly Meeting (New York Yearly Meeting)
  109. Huntingdon Monthly Meeting Huntingdon, PA (Upper Susquehanna Quarterly Meeting; Philadelphia Yearly Meeting)
  110. Illinois Yearly Meeting
  111. Iowa City Monthly Meeting (Iowa Yearly Meeting - Conservative)
  112. Ithaca Monthly Meeting Ithaca, NY (New York Yearly Meeting)
  113. Kalamazoo Monthly Meeting Kalamazoo, MI (Lake Erie Yearly Meeting)
  114. Kennett Monthly Meeting Kennett Square, PA (Western Quarterly Meeting; Philadelphia Yearly Meeting)
  115. Kickapoo Valley Monthly Meeting Gays Mills, WI (Northern Yearly Meeting)
  116. Kitchener Area Monthly Meeting Kitchener, ON (Canadian Yearly Meeting)
  117. La Jolla Monthly Meeting (Pacific Yearly Meeting)
  118. Lancaster Monthly Meeting Lancaster, PA (Caln Quarterly Meeting; Philadelphia Yearly Meeting)
  119. Lansdowne Monthly Meeting Lansdowne, PA (Chester Quarterly Meeting; Philadelphia Yearly Meeting)
  120. Langley Hill Monthly Meeting (Baltimore Yearly Meeting)
  121. Lexington Monthly Meeting (Ohio Valley Yearly Meeting)
  122. Lincoln Monthly Meeting (Iowa Yearly Meeting - Conservative)
  123. Little Falls Monthly Meeting (Baltimore Yearly Meeting)
  124. Live Oak Monthly Meeting (South Central Yearly Meeting)
  125. Logan Monthly Meeting Logan, UT (Intermountain Yearly Meeting)
  126. Lynchburg Monthly Meeting (Baltimore Yearly Meeting)
  127. Madison Monthly Meeting Madison, WI (Northern Yearly Meeting)
  128. Meeting for Sufferings, the Executive branch of London Yearly Meeting
  129. Marin Monthly Meeting (Pacific Yearly Meeting)
  130. Maury River Monthly Meeting (Baltimore Yearly Meeting)
  131. Media Monthly Meeting Media, PA (Chester Quarterly Meeting; Philadelphia Yearly Meeting)
  132. Memphis Monthly Meeting Memphis, TN (Southern Appalachian Yearly Meeting and Association)
  133. Miami Monthly Meeting (South East Yearly Meeting)
  134. Midcoast Monthly Meeting Damariscotta, ME (Vassalboro Quarterly Meeting; New England Yearly Meeting)
  135. Midlothian Monthly Meeting (Baltimore Yearly Meeting)
  136. Middlebury Monthly Meeting Middlebury, VT (Northwest Quarterly Meeting; New England Yearly Meeting)
  137. Middletown Monthly Meeting Middletown, CT (Connecticut Valley Quarterly Meeting; New England Yearly Meeting)
  138. Milwaukee Monthly Meeting Milwaukee, WI (Northern Yearly Meeting)
  139. Minneapolis Monthly Meeting (Northern Yearly Meeting)
  140. Monadnock Monthly Meeting Jaffrey, NH (Northwest Quarterly Meeting; New England Yearly Meeting)
  141. Monongalia Monthly Meeting (Lake Erie Yearly Meeting)
  142. Montclair Monthly Meeting Upper Montclair, NJ (New York Yearly Meeting)
  143. Monthly Meeting of the Friends of Philadelphia (Philadelphia Quarterly Meeting; Philadelphia Yearly Meeting)
  144. Morningside Monthly Meeting New York, NY (New York Yearly Meeting)
  145. Mount Toby Monthly Meeting Leverett, MA (Connecticut Valley Quarterly Meeting; New England Yearly Meeting)
  146. Mountain View Monthly Meeting Denver, CO (Intermountain Yearly Meeting)
  147. Multnomah Monthly Meeting Portland, OR (Willamette Quarterly Meeting; North Pacific Yearly Meeting)
  148. Narramissic Valley Meeting Bucksport, ME (Vassalboro Quarterly Meeting; New England Yearly Meeting)
  149. Nashville Monthly Meeting Nashville, TN (Southern Appalachian Yearly Meeting and Association)
  150. New Bedford Monthly Meeting New Bedford, MA (Sandwich Quarterly Meeting; New England Yearly Meeting)
  151. New Brunswick Monthly Meeting New Brunswich, NJ (New York Yearly Meeting)
  152. New England Yearly Meeting
  153. New Haven Monthly Meeting New Haven, CT (Connecticut Valley Quarterly Meeting; New England Yearly Meeting)
  154. New London Monthly Meeting (New England Yearly Meeting)
  155. New Paltz Monthly Meeting New Paltz, NY (New York Yearly Meeting)
  156. Newton Monthly Meeting (Philadelphia Yearly Meeting)
  157. North Columbus Monthly Meeting (Lake Erie Yearly Meeting)
  158. North Shore Monthly Meeting Beverly Farms, MA (Salem Quarterly Meeting; New England Yearly Meeting)
  159. Northampton Monthly Meeting Northampton, MA (Connecticut Valley Quarterly Meeting; New England Yearly Meeting)
  160. North Meadows Circle of Friends Indianapolis, IN (Whitewater Quarterly Meeting; Ohio Valley Yearly Meeting)
  161. North Pacific Yearly Meeting
  162. Northside Monthly Meeting Chicago, IL (Chicago North Quarterly Meeting; Illinois Yearly Meeting)
  163. Northwest Quarterly Meeting (New England Yearly Meeting)
  164. Nottingham Monthly Meeting (Baltimore Yearly Meeting)
  165. Ohio Valley Yearly Meeting
  166. Old Chatham Monthly Meeting (New York Yearly Meeting)
  167. Orange County Monthly Meeting (Pacific Yearly Meeting)
  168. Orange Grove Monthly Meeting Pasadena, CA (Southern California Quarterly Meeting; Pacific Yearly Meeting)
  169. Orono Monthly Meeting Orono, ME (Vassalboro Quarterly Meeting; New England Yearly Meeting)
  170. Oxford Monthly Meeting Oxford, OH (Miami Quarterly Meeting; Ohio Valley Yearly Meeting)
  171. Pacific Yearly Meeting
  172. Palm Beach Monthly Meeting Palm Beach, FL (Southeastern Yearly Meeting)
  173. Palo Alto Monthly Meeting (Pacific Yearly Meeting)
  174. Paullina Monthly Meeting Paulina, IA (Iowa Yearly Meeting - Conservative)
  175. Patapsco Monthly Meeting Ellicott City, MD (Baltimore Yearly Meeting)
  176. Peconic Bay Monthly Meeting (New York Yearly Meeting)
  177. Penn Valley Monthly Meeting Kansas City, MO (Iowa Yearly Meeting - Conservative)
  178. Philadelphia Yearly Meeting
  179. Pima Monthly Meeting Pima, AZ (Intermountain Yearly Meeting)
  180. Pine River Monthly Meeting (Lake Erie Yearly Meeting)
  181. Pipe Creek Monthly Meeting (Baltimore Yearly Meeting
  182. Pittsburgh Monthly Meeting (Lake Erie Yearly Meeting)
  183. Pondtown Monthly Meeting Winthrop, ME (Vassalboro Quarterly Meeting; New England Yearly Meeting)
  184. Portland Monthly Meeting Portland, ME (Falmouth Quarterly Meeting; New England Yearly Meeting)
  185. Princeton Monthly Meeting (Philadelphia Yearly Meeting)
  186. Providence Monthly Meeting Providence, RI (Rhode Island-Smithfield Quarterly Meeting; New England Yearly Meeting)
  187. Purchase Monthly Meeting Purchase, NY (New York Yearly Meeting)
  188. Putney Monthly Meeting Putney, VT (Northwest Quarterly Meeting; New England Yearly Meeting)
  189. Quaker Lake Monthly Meeting (Baltimore Yearly Meeting)
  190. Radnor Monthly Meeting (Philadelphia Yearly Meeting)
  191. Reading Monthly Meeting (Philadelphia Yearly Meeting)
  192. Red Cedar Monthly Meeting Lansing, MI (Lake Erie Yearly Meeting)
  193. Redwood Forest Monthly Meeting (Pacific Yearly Meeting)
  194. Reno Monthly Meeting (Pacific Yearly Meeting)
  195. Richmond Monthly Meeting Richmond, VA (Baltimore Yearly Meeting)
  196. Roanoke Monthly Meeting (Baltimore Yearly Meeting)
  197. Rochester Monthly Meeting Rochester, NY (New York Yearly Meeting)
  198. Sacramento Monthly Meeting Sacramento, CA (College Park Quarterly Meeting; Pacific Yearly Meeting)
  199. Salem Quarterly Meeting (New England Yearly Meeting)
  200. Salt Lake Monthly Meeting Salt Lake City, UT (Intermountain Yearly Meeting)
  201. Sandwich Monthly Meeting East Sandwich, MA/Falmouth, MA/Yarmouth, MA (Sandwich Quarterly Meeting; New England Yearly Meeting)
  202. San Antonio Monthly Meeting (South Central Yearly Meeting)
  203. San Diego Monthly Meeting (Pacific Yearly Meeting)
  204. San Francisco Monthly Meeting (Pacific Yearly Meeting)
  205. San Jose Monthly Meeting (Pacific Yearly Meeting)
  206. Sandy Spring Monthly Meeting (Baltimore Yearly Meeting)
  207. Santa Barbara Monthly Meeting (Pacific Yearly Meeting_
  208. Santa Cruz Monthly Meeting Santa Cruz, CA (College Park Quarterly Meeting; Pacific Yearly Meeting)
  209. Santa Fe Monthly Meeting Santa Fe, NM (Intermountain Yearly Meeting)
  210. Santa Monica Monthly Meeting (Pacific Yearly Meeting)
  211. Scarsdale Monthly Meeting (New York Yearly Meeting)
  212. Seaville Monthly Meeting, Seaville, NJ (Salem Quarterly Meeting; Philadelphia Yearly Meeting)
  213. Smithfield Monthly Meeting Woonsocket, RI (Rhode Island-Smithfield Quarterly Meeting; New England Yearly Meeting)
  214. South Bend Monthly Meeting, South Bend, IN (Chicago South Quarterly Meeting; Illinois Yearly Meeting
  215. South Berkshire Monthly Meeting Great Barrington, MA (Connecticut Valley Quarterly Meeting; New England Yearly Meeting)
  216. South Central Yearly Meeting
  217. Southern California Quarterly Meeting (Pacific Yearly Meeting)
  218. St. Louis Monthly Meeting (Illinois Yearly Meeting)
  219. St. Petersburg Monthly Meeting, St.Petersburg, FL (Southeastern Yearly Meeting)
  220. Stillwater Monthly Meeting (South Central Yearly Meeting)
  221. Storrs Monthly Meeting Storrs, CT (Connecticut Valley Quarterly Meeting; New England Yearly Meeting)
  222. Strawberry Creek Monthly Meeting (Pacific Yearly Meeting)
  223. Summit Monthly Meeting (NJ)
  224. Sweden Yearly Meeting
  225. Tallahassee Monthly Meeting, Tallahassee, FL (Southeastern Yearly Meeting)
  226. Toronto Monthly Meeting, Toronto, ONT (Canadian Yearly Meeting)
  227. Transvaal Monthly Meeting, South Africa
  228. Twin Cities Monthly Meeting, St. Paul, MN (Northern Yearly Meeting)
  229. Unami Monthly Meeting, Pennsburg, PA (Abington Quarterly Meeting; Philadelphia Yearly Meeting)
  230. University Friends Meeting, Seattle, Washington (Pacific Northwest Quarterly Meeting; North Pacific Yearly Meeting)
  231. Utah Friends Fellowship (Intermountain Yearly Meeting)
  232. Vancouver Monthly Meeting, Vacouver, BC (Canadian Yearly Meeting)
  233. Vassalboro Friends Meeting (New England Yearly Meeting)
  234. Virginia Beach Monthly Meeting (North Carolina Yearly Meeting - FUM)
  235. Wellesley Monthly Meeting Wellesley, MA (Salem Quarterly Meeting; New England Yearly Meeting)
  236. Westbury Monthly Meeting, Westbury, NY (New York Yearly Meeting)
  237. Westerly Monthly Meeting Westerly, RI (Rhode Island-Smithfield Quarterly Meeting; New England Yearly Meeting)
  238. Westfield Monthly Meeting, Cinnaminson, NJ (Haddonfield Quarterly Meeting; Philadelpha Yearly Meeting)
  239. Westport Monthly Meeting (New England Yearly Meeting)
  240. Williamsburg Monthly Meeting Williamsburg, VA (Baltimore Yearly Meeting)
  241. Winnipeg Monthly Meeting, Winnipeg, MAN (Canadian Yearly Meeting)
  242. Winthrop Center Friends Church, Winthrop, ME (Vassalboro Quarterly Meeting; New England Yearly Meeting)
  243. Yarmouth Preparative Meeting, South Yarmouth, ME (Sandwich Quarterly Meeting; New England Yearly Meeting)
  244. Yellow Springs Monthly Meeting, Yellow Springs, OH (Ohio Valley Yearly Meeting)
  245. York Monthly Meeting (Baltimore Yearly Meeting)

If you have a Marriage Minute or Minute for other Committment Ceremony for Same-Sex couples that isn't on our list please let us know!

There is a growing collection of gender minutes collected here by NYYM: http://www.nyym.org/nurture/gender/.